Why I finally stopped losing my cards
My old wallet was one of those trifold monsters my dad gave me in college, and it had gotten so fat with receipts and loyalty cards that it literally wouldn't close anymore, which is how I ended up dropping my debit card in a parking lot and not noticing for two days.
After the bank called about a weird charge, I panicked and started asking my brother-in-law and a coworker what they used, and got two totally different answers, one guy swore by a metal cardholder that held like four cards max, which felt useless for someone who still carries cash sometimes.
I ended up going with a slim bifold with RFID blocking mostly because it looked like it wouldn't bulge in my back pocket, and honestly the difference has been kind of embarrassing how much better my life is now — I actually know where my cards are.
It's not glamorous, it's just a wallet, but the amount of mental energy I used to spend patting my pockets is gone.